Objectification and innate pleasures of character assignation

OBJECTIFY: to present or regard as an object

In the straight world, objectification is one of the major complaints against men by women. Feminists argue that porn objectifies women.

Not so in the the gay BDSM world! In fact, it is the dream of most bondage bottoms to be objectified -- stripped of identity, privileges, stature -- to be treated (by straight vanilla standards) inhumanely, sexually violated -- and thoroughly enjoy every second of it.

Ah, the mysteries of sexualorientationism (yes, I made up this word!) - meaning the assigning of your values to sexual orientations other than yours. This also could be sexualgenderorientationassignationalism ;)

(OK, character assignation works just fine -- and it is assignation, not assasination)

Regardless of all my hootenanny above, bottoms LOVE being OBJECTIFIED.

And thank goodness:
1) I am GAY
2) I am KINKY
3) I am a TOP (mostly)
4) I can OBJECTIFY those whom I play with without fear of repercussion.

-Lthrbound

This blog entry has been brought to you in a foggy Nyquil-induced stupor. Better living through chemistry.

BuzzboyPDX, you are sorely missed...

I am so very saddened to say that James Hall (known to many of you as BuzzboyPDX) passed away on December 10, 2005.

I had chatted online with James for years before finally meeting him at IML in May. He was one of the few leathermen who took his part in the community so very seriously and was always williing to share with and learn from others. James was a kind soul - always busy with charities and fundraising. I remember so vividly his chat with me when he had won the Northwest Leather Boy 2005 title - it was like the screen text was glowing with pride.

He succomed to Pneumocystitis Carinii Pneumonia. From what I have just learned, this is a very serious form of pneumonia which can randomly strike when your body is under stress and often as a result of HIV. Fortunately, he passed away peacefully several days after losing consciousness. He is survived by his partner Brian.

I had told him many times he was like a chameleon - as he always looked so radically different in every photo - apparently because he knew how to work hair professionally (I think that's where the "buzz" came into his handle). His stories of flying all over the country to do rich womens hair were always amusing. He clearly knew how to make himself look fantastic - but in reality it was his beautiful soul which would shine even brighter.

James, I miss you - all I can say is that you will not be forgotten. And Brian, even thought we have never met, may peace be with you, and I wish you solace in remembering your time together.

Until we meet again...

-M

RUBBER HUMILIATION

My partner's profile has a very distinct line in it that says:

"Not really into extreme anything - heavy pain, excess raunch, fisting. . . all turn me off."

Pretty clear, isn't it.

Now, this asshole whose online name is rubber humiliation messages him and says

"you like extremes SIR?"

The other half throttles him for not reading the profile:

"Do I like extremes? What the hell kind of question is that? I'll tell you what kind: it's the kind of question that tells me you didn't even read my profile. Towards the bottom of my profile I state: "Just to be clear, I'm NOT into: extreme anything" My experience with anyone who starts out a conversation with "what are you going to do to me sir?" or "how extreme do you get?" is just looking to engage in some online jerkoff chat. Please go somewhere else for that. "

Stern, but straight-to-the-point, and not being an asshole. My partner then blocks him so no more messages can get through. But... he does mention my name in his profile (such a sweet thing to do, isn't it ... I do the same). Seems as though rubbercuntretaliation is steaming and he actually has the nerve to look me up and send me a message to punish me for being associated with the other half!

So... here's what rubberdickcheeseration had to say to me:

"Hey, do me a favor and tell your partner he’s a passive aggressive piece of shit. It is sad how old men like him are so full of disappointment and bitter. And tell him to stop bothering me. He needs help."

Poor baby has his panties in a wad. Colicky little turdbucket, isn't he? (insert sound of baby crying). Funny thing is, HE initiated the contact with my partner! And he wants me to tell my husband to stop bothering him?

So, I send him a cordial reply:

"HEY, HAVE SOME FUN, PULL DOWN YOUR RUBBER PANTIES AND STICK YOUR THUMB UP YOUR ASS!"

He then replies:

"thanks sweetie"

To give you a good picture of what this rubberglobulation twat is all about here is the STOLEN picture he has on his profile:



(I guess I am just as guilty about stealing the picture, but I stole it from his profile.. if anybody knows where this comes from please let me know)

Nice tits, huh?


(ed. note -- as of 3/25/06 he has since removed the stolen picture)